Are we blind? Those who attack Shinchul now are only proving that they are not real members. That they don't know God's heart. That they don't respect True Family. That they are fake leaders, united with the heart of the Devil himself - for their manipulative techniques are the same.
We are proud of Shinchul. A problem that leaders like Bogdan neglected, and allowed to grow, Shinchul could grasp and explain with such a nice, principle words. Yet, the very leaders who allowed this problem for decades, turned viciously against Mother's grandson.
When I sent just what Shinchul said in Albania, a wonderful UK sister responded, "But he later apologized." Just the opposite, his 'apology Sermon' stated the truth even stronger. So you see, how even the good members succumbed to this gaslighting. We cannot stand - allowing such dirty tricks be used within our 'family'. We see through their vicious and unrepentant nature. We know their Ham-type sin is unforgivable.
It's time we learn to recognize manipulation and remove the false leaders and educators who do not represent us. It's time to open our eyes and see how demonstratively are they displaying who their 'father' really is - the one known for the lies and the evil spread throughout the history.
The modern "Mockingbird" effect in personal abuse involves making the victim's truth sound like conspiracy theory — so that when they speak about the abuse, they sound paranoid or unhinged.
How to Recognize an "Evil Mockingbird" Operation
Signs What to Watch ForSudden coldness: Friends/colleagues distancing without explanation
Whisper campaigns: Hearing secondhand that people are "concerned" about you
Narrative consistency: Multiple people using identical phrases to describe you
Pre-emptive strikes: The manipulator sharing "their side" before you speak
Isolation attempts: Being cut off from mutual friends, family, professional networks
Projection patterns: The manipulator accusing you of their exact behaviors
Professional involvement: Authorities... being contacted with "concerns"
The "Oh My God" Moment:
You realize people you trusted have been pre-programmed with a narrative about you. When you try to share your truth, they respond with "Yes, [manipulator] told me you might say that" — confirming the grooming worked.
How to Prevent and Protect Yourself
Immediate Defensive Strategies:
1. Document Everything
Save all communications (texts, emails, voicemails)
Keep a private journal with specific details
2. Go "Gray Rock" or No Contact
3. Tell Your Truth Once — To the Right People
Don't try to convince everyone
Have calm, private conversations with trusted inner circle only
Stick to facts, not interpretations
Don't try to correct the manipulator — simply share your experience
4. Build Documentation Barriers
5. Cultivate "Trusted References"
6. Find Trusted Support
Support groups for validation and strategy Their lies - become visible - once their tricks are known
Pursue goals, strengthen real relationships, avoid unhealthy ones
7. Reputation Repair Through Consistency
The Paradox of Defense
The cruelest aspect: Defending yourself publicly often backfires. It gives the manipulator fresh ammunition, makes you look defensive (which reads as guilt), and keeps you engaged in their drama.
The counter-intuitive truth: The most powerful response is often strategic silence combined with consistent integrity. Over time, the manipulator's inconsistencies become apparent, while your stability contradicts their narrative.
Spiritual/Psychological Protection
From a Jungian perspective, this is "the ordeal of the righteous" — the scapegoat mechanism described by René Girard. The manipulator tries to make you the container for their shadow — projecting everything they refuse to acknowledge in themselves.
Protection comes from:
Knowing your own truth (reality testing with trusted allies)
Refusing to internalize their projection (you are not who they say you are)
Compassionate boundaries (understanding flying monkeys are also manipulated, while maintaining distance)
The "evil Mockingbird" operation ultimately feeds on participation. When you stop trying to control the narrative and simply live your truth, you remove the energy supply for their campaign.
"People who truly know your character will see through the lies. Don't let them see you sweat."
It is All Based on Fabricated Lies
Did others really feel the way the Manipulators present it? No! In every situation from hundred people there may be few who express some unsatisfaction. But even if non express such feelings, manipulator will suggest it, and control others with the fear of someone was hurt and offended. They always invert the reality, always invert the truth. Why? Because that's their nature. They cannot help it.
Why did Adza declare publicly; We are ashamed, his words hurt many, they were offensive. come and tell us if you've been hurt? What if I tell you that there were no hurt people? What if I tell you, that there were no people coming and telling him how hurt they are? It was all intentional lie, a covert manipulative technique.
It was all a complete inversion of reality through inversion and manipulation - with only one clear intent - dehumanize the messenger, to kill his message. For that's all it was - a bunch of covert fabrications, and manipulative suggestions.
Playing concerned, Adza and the other London pastors were themselves generating, creating, and crafting this inverted reality; where Shinchul is the villain, ESGD are hurt victims, and people are scandalized. This is a complete inversion of the actual situation. No one was hurt! No one could even think of if they didn't suggest. No one else was victim of anything. Only Shinchul - he was hurt by all that, he was victimized unjustly. And it was all done intentionally by these false pastors.
By Adza asking people to come forward if they've been hurt, he was doing two false suggestions at once; (1) He manipulatively suggests they are many, and that he knows because people tell him. (Which is a lie) And (2) at the same time he triggers es the fallen nature of more and get such support, but more importantly plant's the idea that this is so bad. (Which totally does not connect with reality)
Because their attack is hidden under the pretense of 'concern', 'carrying', or even 'helping' you - it is difficult to accuse them. Most people do not even realize that all consequent problems are manipulated exactly by this trusted helper. But once you see their methods, you cannot unsee it.
The very fact these leaders waged such evil smear campaign against Mother's grandson is more then enough to see that something is very wrong in UK. Whereas Father was often scolding leaders, and Hyo Jin was using harsh language, but no one could even hold the idea that they were hurting someone. But now we see UK leaders outraged with the grandson, who was in fact so kind and completely reasonable.
The problem is, that we cannot comprehend why did they do it? In early years when father was scolding members hard, Mother was comforting members, telling them how concerned Father is about God's providence, how they should understand his heart. Did UK leaders show any care for Shinchul's heart, for what will hurt God and the Providence, so well explained by Shinchul?
No, Manipulators take pleasure in controlling people, in such underhanded way. They intentionally throw the victim in confusion and victimize without remorse. We could say that this is simply their sociopathic nature. But this is way deeper. None of the above actions of Adza is acceptable attitude towards Mother's grandson. It is all vicious and premeditated 'Mockingbird' operation. They were completely focused on one thing, destroy his image - to silence the truth-teller.
That's why Bogdan immediately wrote a Public Declaration, saying; (1) Shinchul is nobody, he does not represent Mother, and his views do not correspond to the UK FFWPU views. (2) And therefore, we will go against his direction and continue to support and finance ESGD (Who stood against Mother).
You see how crazy these people are. He is saying that Mother is not recognizing her grandson, and is supporting those who are against her. The more you look at the actions and words of these leaders the more you notice how overboard is their dedication to lies, inversions, fabrications - anything that helps them go against our Traditions, our Views, and continue supporting and pushing False Educators, False leaders who are leading towards the division and ultimate destruction of our movement.
Do Not Buy into Their BS
Well, just don't buy into their BS. They are not the arbitrators of truth. You don't have to justify who you are - they are not listening anyway. Live as a free person. Speak the truth freely, despite their efforts to bring you down.
"Stay in the spirit of love and light: God does not give me a spirit of fear but power, love and a sound mind."
Such manipulators live in delusion, that we don't have to play along with. We can have a meaningful, and productive relationships without them. With them - not so much. So don't argue with them - avoid them.
But when it comes to a group or organization, these toxic people have to go. The difficulty, however, is how to educate the rest of the members not to sink into their mud. And yes, their manipulative methods have a lot in common with falling under some magic spell. Like if people's minds get under some dark fog - distorting the reality - inverting good and evil. Can be even your friends, or relatives:
You realize people you trusted have been pre-programmed with a narrative about you. When you try to share your truth, they respond with "Yes, [manipulator] told me you might say that" — confirming the grooming worked.
Imagine, how does Shinchul feel... it's like a betrayal. The members he loved turned against him. Blocked from hearing the truth. Can he trust us. But if he sinks into believing this BS, think of how much that can block, suppress and hinder the victim spiritually - which is their true aim? Why did they do it? Why to TM grandson? Why are UK leaders still keeping this negative narrative? Why they have no conscience of what evil they have done?
Yes, they can turn the people against us or any truth-teller. Yes, under their spell people will refuse to even hear the truth. But that makes it even more obvious, you are dealing with toxic people, chronic manipulators, channeling some nasty, dark spiritual forces - that you definitely don't want, and don't need in your organization. and in your life. For even 1 or 2 such people can destroy trust and relationships among hundreds.
You may notice Gaslighted people suddenly distance without explanation, out of nowhere people are "concerned" about you. Signs of such manipulation behind your back, using identical phrases to describe you, but in fact the manipulators are accusing you of their exact behaviors. So, this is just showing you who they are. See,
Signs of Gaslighting Against Shinchul We denounce such manipulative behavior as unacceptable. We know manipulators are the best in climbing to leadership positions, but we stand with Mother and her grandson, asking for anyone involved in this smear campaign to be removed from any leadership or decision-making position.