Unification Family Therapy / By Y.UTS
COMMENT: "This situation in UK is very painful for us and for God: Thanks to this article we are lacky to observe, understand, and learn to overcome the gaslighting power of manipulation - we have seen used on Shin Chul. For they use it on us constantly - and we've been controlled, powerless to respond. Again - God is teaching us to MATURE and finally stand and Subjugate Satan."
1. What is Gaslighting:
Gaslighting is an abusive pattern of manipulation, victimizing a person through misdirection, reality distortion, aimed at destabilizing a victim's confidence in their own judgment and sanity.
- Distorting reality to make victim doubt perception
- Using confusion to establish control
- Triangulation and turning others against the victim
The real events are replaced with the manipulator's version of the truth. People's perception of the events is altered in order to gain power and control over the victim.
Gaslighting is an insidious form of manipulation and psychological control. Victims of gaslighting are deliberately and systematically fed false information that leads them to the point where they question what they know to be true, often about themselves. It brings them to the point of doubting their memory, their perception, and even their sanity. Over time, a gaslighter’s manipulations can grow more complex and potent, making it increasingly difficult for the victim to see the truth.Victims are targeted at the core of their being: their sense of identity and self-worth. Manipulative people who engage in gaslighting do so to attain power over their victims, either to derive warped enjoyment from the act or because they wish to emotionally, physically or financially control their victim.
They Never Admit - Intent is Hidden and Covert
Gaslighting is typically covert and denies its own existence — the gaslighter never admits to manipulation.
Gaslighting is inherently about domination through confusion — making it align with coercive, "left-hand" approaches. The Gaslighter uses words and spiritual power to control while appearing holy or enlightened — manipulation that "masquerades as an angel of light" (2 Corinthians 11:14).
Reading below, you'll see how obvious and intentional was the Gaslighting played on ShinChul, and yet, none of the London participants will ever admit. Manipulators have no conscience - they will deny and deny, while continuing to apply the same manipulative techniques. No matter how obvious the intention, the Gaslighting technique is so covert and underhanded, and its power is that they hide their attack under the false pretense of love and concern.
2. Gaslighting is Reality Distortion that Requires Demonic Power
It's really a Luciferian method of Distortion of the Truth, by reversing the facts, and imposing on the victim their own evil intends.
As children of God our spiritual goal is liberation through understanding, not control. Gaslighting is just the opposite - it is Reality Fragmentation, through reversal of the facts, confusing the logic, in order to distort the Truth and the perception of reality. It is characteristic of those in bond with Satan.
Use of Gaslighting is not true leadership through love, but corrupt spiritual authority through coercive control.A normal person will never achieve such powerful effect of reality distortion. This tactic is characteristic of one who lacks empathy - willing to victimize others in order to control them, and can be associated with the use of Black Magic. Gaslighting is impossible without the assistance of strong spiritual powers. It's a trait of low demonic spirits, or people who are in special bond with such spiritual forces.
Esoteric traditions view gaslighting as psychic vampirism — the extraction of emotional energy from the victim to empower the abuser.
Observing such sociopathic behavior is difficult for us to understand. Even if we want, we cannot grasp how exactly they do it. And yet, we feel out of balance. We sense, we are dealing with some very Dark spiritual forces. We feel confused, why all that seems common sense is misunderstood and reversed. This sense is correct. No matter how nice, and carrying these people present themselves, they are chronic manipulators and vehicles for evil spirit powers.
"Those who employ such tactic are narcissists with personality disorder and psychopaths. Such chronic manipulators have a tendency to present one face to their target and another to the rest of the world, leading victims to assume that if they ask for help or speak out, no one will believe that they have been emotionally abused."
"Gaslighting is explicitly about destroying someone's autonomous perception and replacing it with the manipulator's constructed reality. A Catholic exorcist noted, "demons are "the original gaslighters" because they seek to "assert control, confuse and disempower" — the opposite of divine love.""
Gaslighting is Black Magic: Seeks domination, control, and the subjugation of another's will.
"A gaslighter aims to establishes trust quickly, and may praise their target - called, "love bombing"; The more quickly a victim becomes enamored, the more quickly the next phase of manipulation can begin."
Anton LaVey, founder of the Church of Satan, in his work, "Lesser Magic," talks of "spellbind" the witch's object of desire. The successful application of lesser magic is said to be built upon that. As LaVey explains that, in order to control a person, one must first attract his or her attention. LaVey talks of "fascination" and "glamour" as part of "coercive" magic. ("fascination" = "fascinare", which means "to cast a spell upon"). They are specifically interested in mastering a form of manipulative role-play, wherein the practitioner may seduce or "bewitch" an object of desire.
4. Learning to recognize and overcome is a matter of Spiritual Maturity / ability to upstand against and subjugate the evil spiritual influence.
"Gaslighting is an inversion - it is anti-spiritual — destroying rather than cultivating consciousness.It is not easy to recognize it, and because of spiritual immaturity many can easily become victims or assist the victimization of the target.
"Gaslighting is more effective and successful than many people imagine, and almost anyone can be susceptible to gaslighting tactics. It's used by domestic abusers, dictators, narcissists, and cult leaders. The most effective gaslighters are the hardest to detect; but can be recognized by their victims' actions and mental state."
(Example: ShinChul was publicly victimized / yet, so many were manipulated against him, and did not even recognize how their perception of reality was reversed upside down). When you try to explain - you face a wall. No facts or explanations seem to be of any help. You feel as if they are under some powerful spell.) See: UK Pastors Offense on Shin Chul
- Is seizing attention through manufactured emotional responses
- A form of Manipulative Magic - casts a spell upon someone's mind
- Is trained witch ability to be alluring, to utilize glamour" to enchant and manipulate
- The spell makes everyone misremember what actually happened
"The gaslighter creates a false narrative portraying themselves as the victim and the actual victim as the problem. They may claim the victim is "lying," "delusional," "unstable," or "overreacting"."
To control and frame you, the manipulators insists that, "You're the one being controlling."
Protecting yourself is perceived as attacks ("Why are you being so defensive?")
"This is a pattern of abusive behavior with the intent not just to influence someone, but actually to control them."
"They use gaslighting to attain power over their victims, and derive warped enjoyment from the act while fulfilling they wish to emotionally, physically or financially control their victim."
"Gaslighters impose their own improvised new rules aiming to disregard the victim's boundaries and values."
"Gaslighters intentionally engage in behaviors that make the partner uncomfortable, aiming to break him down,"
This is a deliberate strategy to destabilize one's grip on reality. It's unnatural for normal people. This is evil - really satanic manipulation. Yet, we fall into its trap. Everyone - the rest of the leaders, members, even ShinChul, is in a position, where he cannot blame them, but has to cooperate and apologize. Which, like evil hideous spirits they immediately used to say, "See, he apologized, so he denounced his own statements - they are no longer valid." I urge you to recognize how evil, Satanic, these tactics are. How pre-meditated, is their way of reversing everything against God's will.
The Attack on ShinChul - clear and undeniable signs of Gaslighting:
Leaders who's responsibility was to unite and support Shin Chul turned against him. Members, not even aware of it, assist that victimization. Those against Mother portrayed as victims, while ShinChul victimized by being portrayed as villain and aggressor. Complete opposite of the reality.
Signs of Gaslighting:Members, even Mike Bolcomb "felt confused about what really happened."ShinChul found himself apologizing for things he didn't do wrongEmotional exhaustion from constantly defending your viewpointYou feel pressed to stop sharing your opinions to avoid conflictYou rely on the manipulator to "interpret" situations for youYou notice your version of events is always "wrong"
Every attempt to defend yourself is "interpreted as aggression." If you try to explain yourself you are accused, "Why are you being so defensive?" You are forced in position to defend, but not allowed to. Faced with the awkward situation of needing "evidence" (texts, photos) to prove your own experiences. Their attitude makes you feel like you're "going crazy" - can't trust your own mind, questioning your own perception of reality. Your version of events is always 'wrong'. Feeling more and more isolated from friends/family.
"Gaslighting can be psychologically devastating. It violates trust and upends an individual’s view that people are generally good, potentially making them suspicious of everyone close to them. Falling victim to a gaslighter erodes a person's trust in themselves, it makes them forget what they once valued about themselves."
Powerless to discern the manipulation, we all become controlled and unite with Satan's will. Please understand, through the very same deceit our own ancestors are manipulated to descend and harm their own descendants.
God is teaching us to MATURE and Subjugate Satan:
"There are 90% of amazing, good people in the world, but the 10% evil are making it look like they are the majority in the world, because they are so loud."
So, first we have to recognize how they do it? How can a small group of few manipulate us all? How do they reverse the truth without us noticing? Why no one sees their vast mobilization of negativity and accusations against ShinChul, but we are cornered and accused immediately for just noticing that this is wrong?
NOTE: They mobilize massive campaign of Defamation against ShinChul, yet we get accused for Defamation for the smallest remark that this is wrong. (Satanic Reversal of Reality)
Who gave them the right to not only hold in contempt, but stir feelings of distain, disrespect, denigration, scornfulness and derision towards Mother's beloved grandson? To scorn Shin Chul for telling them the unpleasant, but obvious truth. See, UK Pastors vs. Mother's Grandson
To create pressure, this shadow group of people, were demanding to know why Shin Chul even got permission to use the South London church for his event?
How come a secret Shadow Group, an enemy from within, is capable of such vast, dark and powerful multiplication of evil, to turn the hearts of so many against undeniable words of truth and common sense? What power from the bottom pit of Hell, did they mobilize to blind the minds of the congregation into such an insane, and totally reversed view on the situation?
To turn God's beloved into pray. To openly declare 'shame' and 'offense' of his beautiful words, expressed with such a wonderful heart. A merciless, inhumane, and ruthless attack, demonstrating their "bond of blood tie with... (low demonic forces)", as DP characterizes this very same act.
See, Displeased Emotions Allow Satan to Work
How vicious and degraded, a person capable of such Evil Emotional Manipulation one must be? But what must be the power, the dark hellish force, allowing them to hypnotize everyone in this Dark Spell?
How Gaslighting Manipulates Others Against the Victim
What These Facilitators Are Called
Types of Flying Monkeys:
- Spreading rumors and gossip about the victim
- Harassing or stalking the victim
- Reporting back to the gaslighter about the victim's activities
- Using gaslighting tactics, aggression, or guilt-tripping to destabilize the victim
- Deception: Believing the gaslighter's false narrative that they are the real victim
- People-pleasing: Wanting to help and not disappoint the manipulator
- Fear and coercion: Submitting to avoid becoming targets themselves
- Codependency: Deriving purpose from serving the gaslighter's needs
Other Related Terms:
- Enablers — Those who defend, dismiss, or excuse the abusive behavior
- Triangulated individuals — People caught in the three-way manipulation dynamic
- Rescuers — Those manipulated into believing the gaslighter needs saving from the "difficult" victim
Why This Is So Effective
A gaslighter aims to establishes trust quickly, and may praise their target - called, "love bombing"; The more quickly a victim becomes enamored, the more quickly the next phase of manipulation can begin.
A gaslighter will initially lie about simple things, gradually increasing the misinformation. He will accuse the victim of lying if he questions the narrative. Occasional positive reinforcement is deployed to confuse the victim and keep them off balance, while at the same time, they will attempt to turn others against the victim, even their own friends and family, by telling them that the victim has been lying or is delusional.
Gaslighting is more effective and successful than many people imagine, and almost anyone can be susceptible to gaslighting tactics. Its used by domestic abusers, dictators, narcissists, and cult leaders. The most effective gaslighters are the hardest to detect; but can be recognized by their victims' actions and mental state.
Those who employ this tactic narcissists with personality disorder and psychopaths. Manipulators have a tendency to present one face to their target and another to the rest of the world, leading victims to assume that if they ask for help or speak out, no one will believe that they have been emotionally abused.
This is not a simple manipulation - gaslighters, are more rare. It involves a pattern of abusive behaviors with the intent not just to influence someone, but actually to control them.
A primary goal of a gaslighter is to keep their victim hooked. If a victim disagrees with or questions the abuser, the gaslighter will make it seem as if they themselves are being victimized by the target.
Gaslighting can be psychologically devastating. It violates trust and upends an individual’s view that people are generally good, potentially making them suspicious of everyone close to them. Falling victim to a gaslighter erodes a person's trust in themselves, it makes them forget what they once valued about themselves
Signs of Gaslighting & Reality Distortion
What are the ways of recognizing and resisting psychological manipulation? How to identify when you're being subjected to manipulation tactics that distort your perception of reality:You feel confused about what "really happened"
You find yourself apologizing for things you didn't do wrong
You are in the awkward situation of needing "evidence" (texts, photos) to prove your own experiences
You feel like you're "going crazy" or can't trust your own mind
Feeling isolated from friends/family who might validate your reality
Anxiety about expressing your own perceptions
Emotional exhaustion from constantly defending your viewpoint
Behavioral Signs:You stop sharing your opinions to avoid conflict
You rely on the manipulator to "interpret" situations for you
You notice your version of events is always "wrong"
The "Opposite World" Pattern:
When someone insists that:
Harm is help ("I'm only doing this because I love you")
Your boundaries are attacks ("Why are you being so defensive?")
...this is a deliberate strategy to destabilize your grip on reality.
Key points
- Gaslighting is a destructive manipulation tactic that undermines a person's perception of reality.
- Gaslighters often lack self-awareness and fail to recognize their own manipulative behavior. It's their second nature, developed at early age.
- Gaslighters are more responsive to consequences and actions than words. On emotional, rather than fact based view of the events - intentionally to avoid reason, while transmitting false emotional responses.
Gaslighting is a destructive manipulation tactic that undermines a person's perception of reality and imposes the beliefs of the gaslighter. It's crucial to be aware of the signs of gaslighting to protect yourself:
- Unawareness: Gaslighters often lack self-awareness and fail to recognize their own manipulative behavior. They blame others and avoid taking responsibility for their actions, making it nearly impossible for them to build constructive dialogue and acknowledge their harmful actions in order to change them.
- Willingness to initiate contact (and lose it): Gaslighters actively seek out relationships and interactions because they need someone to manipulate. Initially, they may exhibit charm and superficial respect to establish a connection with their victims. However, once the connection is established, these positive behaviors inevitably disappear.
- Sapping of respect: Over time, gaslighters' respect for their partners diminishes. Disrespectful behaviors and attitudes become more prevalent, further perpetuating the power dynamic within the relationship.
- Violation of agreements: Gaslighters often break agreements to test personal boundaries and assert control. By doing so, they gauge the individual's reactions and seek to consolidate their power. If the victim lets it slide, the gaslighters will continue to violate their promises and disregard their part of agreements. However, they themselves are quick to react if the victims do not respect their obligations.
- Imposition of improvised new rules: Gaslighters impose their own rules within the relationship, disregarding the victim's boundaries and values. They intentionally engage in behaviors that make the partner uncomfortable, aiming to break down their sense of self and assert dominance. For gaslighters, it is an assertion of their own "truth" and an elevation of their superiority and necessity in the other persons' lives.
- Regular and persistent manipulation: Gaslighting behavior becomes a regular occurrence in the relationship as the gaslighter increasingly controls and dominates the victim's life. The victim begins to doubt themselves and their own perceptions, reinforcing the gaslighter's power and undermining their own self-confidence. Instilling self-doubt on the victim's side and establishing it through continuous "dripping" acts are integral ways in which gaslighters build their relationships.
- Discrediting the victim's perception: Gaslighters often use phrases that undermine the victim's perception, dismissing their thoughts and feelings as subjective and invalidating their reality. They draw a distinction between the victim's perspective and their own, asserting their subjective opinion as the "truth" and the other point of view as either imaginary and not based on facts or subjective and detached from the "objective" reality, with which only they have the privilege to be familiar.
- Erosion of self-confidence: Gaslighters aim to erode the victim's self-confidence, leaving them feeling dependent and unsure of themselves. The loss of self-confidence is gradual, but one can measure it by comparing it to the previous 3 to 12 months.
- Words are powerless; actions are stronger: Gaslighters are more responsive to consequences and actions than words. Engaging in dialogue often reinforces their power as they make sure to lead the conversation, influence and convince the other side, and sway the conversation to maintain control. Assertive actions and boundaries can have a greater impact on gaslighters, whereas words play a less significant role in the relationship.
- Excusing their behavior: Gaslighters often have deep-rooted issues stemming from their past, such as early abuse; an extremely dominant parent; traumatic experiences of a psychological, emotional, or sexual nature; or disrupted attachments. (Notice: These are all characteristics of victims of Satanic Ritual Abuse - or MK Ultra Mind Programing) An effort by the victim to understand their reasons may prove futile and even counterproductive as it places the victim in the position of rationalizing the gaslighter's behavior and, thus, exonerating it.
- Preventing one from seeking support: The gaslighter will prevent their victims from seeking support as they are interested in their victim to feel alone and vulnerable. That makes it challenging to address the gaslighting behavior. Managing a relationship with a gaslighter can be challenging for many reasons, such as lack of personal experience with healthier relationship dynamics, feeling guilt toward the gaslighter, or fear of being alone. Uniting with the right mature people can help provide invaluable power to resist the negative effects and recovering from gaslighting experiences.
Remember, the dynamic of a healthy relationship will never lead you into such hell. The type of relationships these London pastors are creating is literally a hellish reality. Think of the spiritual state of such manipulators - it is chronic, and really connected with very low spiritual reality.
Facing this is 'crazy making.' But the problem is not in me and you, who feel something is wrong. Our inner sense, perceptions, and experiences are valid. You feel you are dealing with Sociopaths, no matter how nice they may pretend to be.
Please, try familiarizing yourself with these warning signs of gaslighting. We need to be better equipped to recognize manipulative behavior and take the necessary steps to protect our personal well-being, and relationship in the community.
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