How gossiping affects the minds of the listeners

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Why is gossip bad

I never understood how dangerous gossip is until I studied psychology where I discovered that a word or two that we say can result in destroying the relationship of many people months later!!

Your mind tries to match what it receives from the external world with what it has in the internal data base. That’s why even if you notice the erros that are in this phrsae your mind will quickly try to find a match for them in its database so that it allows you to get the correct meaning. The same is true for hearing. How is that connected to gossiping?

How gossiping affects the minds of the listeners

If a guy never met “Sam” and you told him that “Sam” is a mean person then his mind will store in its database the fact that Sam is mean even if he was not sure of it.

As soon as your friends meets Sam his mind will try to match Sam’s behavior with its internal database which states that 'Sam is mean' and so the result will be interpreting any mistake that Sam makes as a sign for being mean.

Moreover, if Sam did anything good your friend’s mind will discard it because it doesn’t match its own database. Unless Sam does a considerable amount of effort to prove otherwise your friend will find hundreds of clues that supports the fact that he is mean.

Your friend will then start to treat Sam in a bad way which will force Sam to respond back with bad treatment too. Soon those two people will become enemies and they will start to hate each other. And guess what, all of this happened because of the small seed you planted when you told your friend that Sam is a mean person!!

Now what if sermon is full with repetitions that Mom is mean, selfish, worthless and even lesbian.. systematically desensitizing the voice of their conscience and heart.

Gossip and Mind Programming

Our minds get programmed by repetition. Even if your friend was on good terms with Sam, still repeating the fact that he is mean will result in programming your friend's mind to believe that Sam is really mean. (see Subconscious mind)

The effect of the programming will become 10 times more powerful if two people did the same thing, for example if you and a third friend told your other friend that Sam is mean then most probably he will believe you.

It's better to learn how this concept can be used in a positive way, helping others to have more love and understanding for a person. Mother often used that to help us understand Father. Even when TF was scolding us, Mother lovingly explained that we have to understand his determined heart and how urgent is God's providence. This way, Mother helped us to be united with Father.

If few of your friends tell your spouse that you are becoming more attractive he or she will soon believe them and find you really attractive.

In short, by gossiping about someone you are activating his fallen nature; modifying the listener’s internal world in such a way that he might find these bad things in the person you are talking about even if they were not there.

THE STRUGGLE IS INSIDE OF YOU
 The Fallen Nature results from the Physical Mind

Reverend Sun Myung Moon explains: "What is the first fallen nature? It is not taking the same viewpoint as God. The mind tries to take the same viewpoint as God, but what does not take the same viewpoint as God? The body. Can I get my body to feel what God likes and come to like it too? The body should not act just the way it wants to but should act as God wants. Until now this struggle has been going on. Without this, restoration would not occur."

If you take a look at the Heart Resonance chart, gossiping occurs only when we are in low resonance of heart. That's why the most powerful gossiping is that of sharing 'displeased emotions'. It looks innocent; one is simply sharing his broken heart with others. But the result is shocking; the listener's heart is now full with rage against the one who supposedly hurt you.

Guess how is this vicious habit learned? In the family! (See, Games People Play In The Family) Let us say, a mother shares her displeased feelings heartisticly to her child and now the child hates it's father because of that. Worse of all, this child will grow up being powerful manipulator, using such heartistic sharing to achieve things in live, constantly searching for this twisted type of love. Read, Gossip - The Poisonous Triangle of Mistrust

Speak only Words of Love

"My lips are meant to speak only words of love; they cannot speak unkind words. You should feel that your ears are no longer able to hear words that are not loving, and that your eyes cannot see anything that is not about love. If you live like that, in no time you will be intoxicated in the love of God. You will become a leading figure who, by communicating directly with the spirit world, will be able to solve skillfully and easily any problem." CBG, Sun Myung Moon

The only advice I have for you is to never gossip about someone. Please try to always see what God see in them. Please try to always stimulate the original nature in others. Because if goodness spreads because of what you planted, your reword will be eternal. But if evil spreads, like this video explains, you'll never be able to restore it and run away from the consequences.




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NUMEROLOGY: The Meaning of the Numbers

NUMEROLOGY

Numbers and their Meaning

God is 'mathematical' and that's why his creation is mathematical. Even the spiritual and social principles are based on mathematics. That's why Numerology offers so many facets to understanding a single event. The esoteric meaning of numbers can be a real code-cracker of our life experience.

Do you know the meaning of each number?

0 - The Source - Before the One, Cosmic Egg, an empty circle, only Void, non-being, nothingness. Like the Ether, the Plasma Field from which everything is created - the Pre-Energy, the Pre-Matter / Zero-Point-Energy. 

1 - Start - beginning, First Cause, Unity, Center, the Godhead, Spirit; God

2 - Couple - Pairs, Duality; Subject and Object, Give & Take, Relationship; The life-force, Alteration; diversity; conflict; dependence, balance (two sides); stability; reflection, opposites

3 - Growth - 3 stages of growth, Trinity, Triangle, Creative power, Give birth, three-parted nature of the world, complete cycle - past, present, future; Completion, Sanctity; Stability.

Everything goes through 3 stages of growth to reach perfection. God creates through Origin-Division-Union. For example, male and female created to resemble God's masculine and feminine characteristics grow in two different directions (as polarity of plus and minus) only to attract each other and come into unity - creating 4 - a family foundation (4). Same law is valid from micro-cosmos to the macro-cosmos. 

4 - Square - Four Position Foundation = foundation of life - Tree of Life; channel of love, ideal, goodness; Perfection; harmonious proportion; That's why we have 4 dimensions, first solid number, Earth; Order; Foundation, 4 seasons, 4 directions, number of Time.

Everything God created works through the Four Position Foundation. Subject and Object united centered on God create Unity - producing something new and higher. Examples: Protons (+) and Electrons (-) unite and create Atoms. Husband and Wife unite and produce Children. Become number 4 - family union centered on God.

5 - Senses; Pentagon - meditation; religion, education; multiplication, expansion, the wheel, Success. 

We have 5 physical senses, and 5 spiritual senses - through them we get dominion over both dimensions - physical and spiritual. Mastering them is how we grow.

6 - Top of the growth stage just before reaching full maturity (Teenager level of growth - on the crossroad to grow to Completion (7, 8, 9) or to Fall under the control of 6. (It became number of the Fall - Fornication - Antichrist). Why? 6 is the Angelic level; symbolizes union of polarity.

6 is the symbol of physical love = premature sex. That's why the 6-pointed star was a Babylonian Moloch worshiping symbol, represents the 6 days of creation taken by Satan (God could not enter in his rest - 7th day - meaning humanity did not go to Completion (7). Sexual relationships were supposed to be consummated after reaching 7 - and having dominion over the Angels. Lucifer seducing Eve at level 6 left humanity under the Fallen Angels dominion. Immature sex led to immature descendants. 

The human Fall happened at the top of the Growth Stage = 6. (3 levels of Formation stage, 3 levels of Growth stage = 6) That's where the Fallen Angels took over humanity (Satan took that number). 6 is the maximum level of growth Angels can rich (So they now dominate). Humans - created as God's children = higher than Angels, are now stuck under 6, cannot reach perfection = 9 - where they would dominate the Angels (No fall, no sin will be possible). That's why big companies avoid number 9 (Apple, Android...). That's why 666 means Angelic dominion over all 3 stages = Humanity under slavery of Fallen Angels. 

7 - Heaven and earth united = Cosmos, Fertility, 'Love' embodies tremendous sexual energy, Perfection of the creation, humanity's connection to its source; cosmic stages; seven chakras - energy nodes, symbol of the empathy and the healer

8 - New beginning (7+1); Renewal - beginning of the transformation, regeneration and rebirth; Resurrection, represents the whole, good luck number, Felicity, solidarity and stability

9 - Completion of Perfection (3x3); Celestial; fulfillment; attainment; the whole number; supreme spiritual power, heavenly power, represents truth, encloses the Universe. Only when we reach 9 (Top of the Growth Stage), we can go to 10.

A person who reached 9 has to appear and restore all these numbers, finally returning all to God (10). Meaning, a new perfected Adam, has to restore perfected Eve, restore number 4 (creating true family), multiply true unfallen children (5), overcome the Angels (liberating number 6) and thus freeing the Cosmos from Satan's dominion = restore 7. This will start the new beginning for humanity = 8. So every human can reach 9 (by creating true families 4 / multiplying 5...) 

10 - Return to God (9+1); the Eternal Word - awakens your soul; 1+2+3+4= 10 symbolizes divinity; the perfect return to unity; (5+5=10) Unity of mind and body; symbolize the whole of manifestation; completion of journeys and returns to origin; The Kingdom; Resplendent.

Only when humanity is restored to number 9, finally the Kingdom of God = 10 will be able to merge. So it cannot come from outside. It has to grow from within - from perfect individuals, creating perfected families, growing into tribes, society, nations and finally the whole world. Therefore, as everything in the creation - it is a process, does not happen suddenly. And it is not for God, but for us - humanity to complete it. God cannot interfere. He can only guide and support when we fulfill our own portion of responsibility. If he does it we will be reduced to robots - loose our authority of God's children who can inherit his creativity and dominate ourselves with love. 

SPIRITUAL MEANING OF THE NUMBERS

One:
One primarily deals with strong will, positivity, pure energy. The number one reflects new beginnings, and purity. The symbolic meaning of number one is further clarified when we understand one represents both kinds of action: physical and mental. This combined with one urgency for new beginnings, we begin to see ones' recurring in our lives indicates a time to exert our natural forces, take action, and start a new venture. One encourages us our action will be rewarded in kind.

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Two:
The symbolic meaning of number two is kindness, balance, tact, equalization, and duality. The number two reflects a quiet power of judgment, and the need for planning. Two beckons us to choose. The spiritual meaning of number Two also deals with exchanges made with others, partnerships (both in harmony and rivalry), and communication. Two urges us out of our indecision, calls us to unite with like-minds, and like-ideals. Two asks us to exert our natural flow of judgment to do what is best for our souls.

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Three:
The spiritual meaning of number three deals with magic, intuition, fecundity, and advantage. The number three invokes expression, versatility, and pure joy of creativity. Three is also a time identifier as it represents: Past, Present and Future. Consecutive threes in your life may symbolize the need to express yourself creatively, or consider your present directional path in relation to past events and future goals. Three may also represent promising new adventures, and assurance of cooperation from others whom you may require help. Three typically symbolizes reward and success in most undertakings.

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Four:
The symbolic meaning of number four deals with stability and invokes the grounded nature of all things. Consider the four seasons, four directions, four elements all these amazingly powerful essences wrapped up in the nice square package of Four. Fours represent solidity, calmness, and home. A recurrence of four in your life may signify the need to get back to your roots, center yourself, or even "plant" yourself. Fours also indicate a need for persistence and endurance.

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Five:
The spiritual meaning of number five deals with travel, adventure, and motion. With the highs that come with these attributes, five also carries instability and unpredictability, and radical changes. The spiritual meaning of five draws our attention to the wonder of life, and beckons us to appreciate the perception of chaos all around us. Five has wild vibrations: primitive and erratic. When five continues to pop up in your life be prepared for some action, like a trip. Remember, trips aren't all necessarily taken physically. Some of the best journey's are taken in the mind and spirit.

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Six:
The symbolism behind number six is legend. With Venus as its ruler, six represents harmony, balance, sincerity, love, and truth. Six naturally reveals solutions for us in a calm, unfolding manner. We invoke the six when we need delicate diplomacy when dealing with sensitive matters. The spiritual meaning of number six also deals with enlightenment; specifically "lighting" our path in areas we require spiritual and mental balance. Sixes beckon us to administer compassion and consciously choose forgiveness in a situation.

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Seven:

Sevens, like Threes, deal with magical forces. Sevens deal with esoteric, scholarly aspects of magic. Representative of scholarly activities, mystery, and the focused search for esoteric meanings. Seven deals with the activation of imagination and manifesting results in our lives through the use of conscious thought and awareness. Ruled by Saturn, Seven can represent impractical dreaming, but with a deeper understanding of the aspects of Seven, you can quite deftly utilize its magical vibration to your own benefit.

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Eight:

The symbolism backing number eight deals largely with business, success, and wealth. This is due to the fact that eight represents continuation, repetition, and cycles. Such elements are seen in arenas where success is obtained simply because of dogged determination and repetition. Also, matters of business and wealth largely depend on cycles to fulfill their manifestation. It's like the snowball analogy: As it continues to roll, in gets bigger and bigger with each revolution. Eight represents that kind of momentum.

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Nine:
The spiritual meaning of number nine bring us to the very height of vibrational frequencies in this number sequence. Nine represents attainment, satisfaction, accomplishment, and our success to achieve an influence in our circumstances. The spiritual meaning of number nine deals with intellectual power, inventiveness, influence over situations and things. Nine beseeches us to recognize our own internal attributes, and extend these abilities out into the world to make a positive, influential difference.

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