Signs of Gaslighting: Victimized and Controlled Through Reality Distortion

Signs of Gaslighting: 
Are you been Victimized and Controlled Through Reality Distortion

1. What is Gaslighting:

Gaslighting is an abusive pattern of manipulation, victimizing a person through misdirection, reality distortion, aimed at destabilizing a victim's confidence in their own judgment and sanity. The real events are replaced with the manipulator's version of the truth. People's perception of the events is altered in order to gain power and control over the victim.

2. Gaslighting is Reality Distortion that Requires Demonic Power

A normal person will never achieve such powerful effect of reality distortion.  This tactic is characteristic of one who lacks empathy - willing to victimize others in order to control them, and can be associated with the use of Black Magic. Gaslighting is impossible without the assistance of strong spiritual powers. It's a trade of low demonic spirits, or people who are in special bond with such spiritual forces. 

3. Learning to recognize and overcome is a matter of Spiritual Maturity / ability to upstand and subjugate evil spiritual influence.

It is not easy to recognize it, and because of spiritual immaturity many can easily become victims or assist the victimization of the target. (Example: ShinChul was publicly victimized / yet, so many were manipulated against him, and did not even recognize how their perception of reality was reversed upside down). Even when you try to explain to them - you find that they are still 'confused' of the real view on the events. 

People who saw this—do they all misremember?

The "Opposite World" Pattern:
To control and frame you the manipulators insists that, "You're the one being controlling." 

Harm is help ("I'm only doing this because I love you"). 
Your boundaries are attacks ("Why are you being so defensive?")

You see how everything is reversed? This is a deliberate strategy to destabilize your grip on reality. It's unnatural for normal people. This is evil - really satanic manipulation. Yet, we fall in it's trap. Everyone - the resto of the leaders, members, even ShinChul, is in a position, where he cannot blame them, but has to cooperate and apologize. Which, like evil hideous spirits they immediately used to say, "See, he apologized, so he denounced his statements - they are no longer valid." I urge you to recognize how evil, Satanic, this tactics are. How pre-meditated, is their way of reversing everything against God's will. 

If you take the same situation, without the London Pastors' Gaslighting manipulation, people would have been inspired by ShinChul's words, Leaders would have made new determination to be better Educators, and correct those who are not. Future would be brighter. But no! Now everything is upside down. All misdirected on some humanistic false-empathy emotions, no one even paid attention to ShinChul's words. Those who educated wrong for decades elevated. The future of multiplying further deviations strongly secured. 

The Attack on ShinChul - clear and undeniable signs of Gaslighting:

Leaders who's responsibility was to unite and support Shin Chul turned against him. Members, not even aware of it, assist that victimization. Those against Mother portrait as victims, while ShinChul victimized by being portrait as aggressor. Complete distortion of reality. 

Signs of Gaslighting:

Members, even Mike Bolcomb "felt confused about what really happened."

You (ShinChul) find yourself apologizing for things you didn't do wrong

Emotional exhaustion from constantly defending your viewpoint

You feel pressed to stop sharing your opinions to avoid conflict

You rely on the manipulator to "interpret" situations for you

You notice your version of events is always "wrong"

Every attempt to defend yourself is "interpreted as aggression." If you try to explain yourself you are accused, "Why are you being so defensive?" You are forced in position to defend, but not allowed to. Faced with the awkward situation of needing "evidence" (texts, photos) to prove your own experiences. Their attitude makes you feel like you're "going crazy" - can't trust your own mind, questioning your own perception of reality. Your version of events is always 'wrong'. Feeling more and more isolated from friends/family. 

This is not random - this is a deliberate strategy to destabilize your grip on reality. This is a manipulative abuse - a coercive control mechanism. 

Powerless to discern the manipulation, we all become controlled and unite with Satan's will. Please understand, through the very same deceit our own ancestors are manipulated to descend and harm their own descendants.  

God is teaching us to MATURE and Subjugate Satan:

"There are 90% of amazing, good people in the world, but the 10% evil are making it look like they are the majority in the world, because they are so loud." 

So, first we have to recognize how they do it? How they manipulate us? How they reverse the truth? 

Who gave them the right to not only hold in contempt, but stir feelings of distain, disrespect, denigration, scornfulness and derision towards Mother's beloved grandson? To scorn Shin Chul for telling them the unpleasant, but obvious truth.

To create pressure, this shadow group of people, were demanding to know why Shin Chul even got permission to use the South London church for his event? 

How come a secret Shadow Group, an enemy from within, is capable of such vast, dark and powerful multiplication of evil, to turn the hearts of so many against undeniable words of truth and common sense? What power from the bottom pit of Hell, did they mobilize to blind the minds of the congregation into such an insane, and totally reversed view on the situation?

To turn God's beloved into pray. To openly declare 'shame' and 'offense' of his beautiful words, expressed with such a wonderful heart. A merciless, inhumane, and ruthless attack, demonstrating their "bond of blood tie with... (low demonic forces)", as DP characterizes this very same act.  

How vicious and degraded, a person capable of such Evil Emotional Manipulation one must be? But what must be the power, the dark hellish force, allowing them to hypnotize everyone in this Dark Spell? 

Signs of Gaslighting & Reality Distortion

What are the ways of recognizing and resisting psychological manipulation? How to identify when you're being subjected to manipulation tactics that distort your perception of reality:

Cognitive Signs: 

You constantly second-guess your memory of events
You feel confused about what "really happened"
You find yourself apologizing for things you didn't do wrong
You are in the awkward situation of needing "evidence" (texts, photos) to prove your own experiences
You feel like you're "going crazy" or can't trust your own mind

Emotional Signs:

Persistent self-doubt that wasn't there before
Feeling isolated from friends/family who might validate your reality
Anxiety about expressing your own perceptions
Emotional exhaustion from constantly defending your viewpoint
Behavioral Signs:You stop sharing your opinions to avoid conflict
You rely on the manipulator to "interpret" situations for you
You notice your version of events is always "wrong"

other people saw this—do they all misremember

The "Opposite World" Pattern:
When someone insists that:

Up is down ("You're the one being controlling")
Harm is help ("I'm only doing this because I love you")
Your boundaries are attacks ("Why are you being so defensive?")
...this is a deliberate strategy to destabilize your grip on reality.

manipulation is often a precursor to abuse - on recognizing coercive control.

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Key points

• Gaslighting is a destructive manipulation tactic that undermines a person's perception of reality.
• Gaslighters often lack self-awareness and fail to recognize their own manipulative behavior. It's their second nature, developed at early age.
• Gaslighters are more responsive to consequences and actions than words. On emotional, rather than fact based view of the events - intentionally to avoid reason, while transmitting false emotional responses. 

Gaslighting is a destructive manipulation tactic that undermines a person's perception of reality and imposes the beliefs of the gaslighter. It's crucial to be aware of the signs of gaslighting to protect yourself:

1. Unawareness: Gaslighters often lack self-awareness and fail to recognize their own manipulative behavior. They blame others and avoid taking responsibility for their actions, making it nearly impossible for them to build constructive dialogue and acknowledge their harmful actions in order to change them.
2. Willingness to initiate contact (and lose it): Gaslighters actively seek out relationships and interactions because they need someone to manipulate. Initially, they may exhibit charm and superficial respect to establish a connection with their victims. However, once the connection is established, these positive behaviors inevitably disappear.
3. Sapping of respect: Over time, gaslighters' respect for their partners diminishes. Disrespectful behaviors and attitudes become more prevalent, further perpetuating the power dynamic within the relationship.
4. Violation of agreements: Gaslighters often break agreements to test personal boundaries and assert control. By doing so, they gauge the individual's reactions and seek to consolidate their power. If the victim lets it slide, the gaslighters will continue to violate their promises and disregard their part of agreements. However, they themselves are quick to react if the victims do not respect their obligations.
5. Imposition of improvised new rules: Gaslighters impose their own rules within the relationship, disregarding the victim's boundaries and values. They intentionally engage in behaviors that make the partner uncomfortable, aiming to break down their sense of self and assert dominance. For gaslighters, it is an assertion of their own "truth" and an elevation of their superiority and necessity in the other persons' lives.
6. Regular and persistent manipulation: Gaslighting behavior becomes a regular occurrence in the relationship as the gaslighter increasingly controls and dominates the victim's life. The victim begins to doubt themselves and their own perceptions, reinforcing the gaslighter's power and undermining their own self-confidence. Instilling self-doubt on the victim's side and establishing it through continuous "dripping" acts are integral ways in which gaslighters build their relationships.
7. Discrediting the victim's perception: Gaslighters often use phrases that undermine the victim's perception, dismissing their thoughts and feelings as subjective and invalidating their reality. They draw a distinction between the victim's perspective and their own, asserting their subjective opinion as the "truth" and the other point of view as either imaginary and not based on facts or subjective and detached from the "objective" reality, with which only they have the privilege to be familiar.
8. Erosion of self-confidence: Gaslighters aim to erode the victim's self-confidence, leaving them feeling dependent and unsure of themselves. The loss of self-confidence is gradual, but one can measure it by comparing it to the previous 3 to 12 months. 
9. Words are powerless; actions are stronger: Gaslighters are more responsive to consequences and actions than words. Engaging in dialogue often reinforces their power as they make sure to lead the conversation, influence and convince the other side, and sway the conversation to maintain control. Assertive actions and boundaries can have a greater impact on gaslighters, whereas words play a less significant role in the relationship.
10. Excusing their behavior: Gaslighters often have deep-rooted issues stemming from their past, such as early abuse; an extremely dominant parent; traumatic experiences of a psychological, emotional, or sexual nature; or disrupted attachments. (Notice: These are all characteristics of victims of Satanic Ritual Abuse - or MK Ultra Mind Programing) An effort by the victim to understand their reasons may prove futile and even counterproductive as it places the victim in the position of rationalizing the gaslighter's behavior and, thus, exonerating it.
11. Preventing one from seeking support: The gaslighter will prevent their victims from seeking support as they are interested in their victim to feel alone and vulnerable. That makes it challenging to address the gaslighting behavior. Managing a relationship with a gaslighter can be challenging for many reasons, such as lack of personal experience with healthier relationship dynamics, feeling guilt toward the gaslighter, or fear of being alone. Uniting with the right mature people can help provide invaluable power to resist the negative effects and recovering from gaslighting experiences.

Remember, the dynamic of a healthy relationship will never lead you there. The state of such manipulators is chronic. The problem is not in you. Your emotions, perceptions, and experiences are valid. Try familiarizing yourself with these warning signs of gaslighting, Be better equipped to recognize manipulative behavior and take necessary steps to protect your well-being in any relationship.

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